It was brought to my attention today that I ask my friends for permission to do basically anything. This usually has to do with things like bringing comfort items over to friends homes or asking to speak about/inviting people to things I enjoy. My friend finally asked me today “Who hurt you?” And told me “you’re allowed to treat my space like home. Whatever makes you comfortable you’re allowed to bring it over” and it made me realize how much I’d been conditioned to only do or say what’s considered “normal” and it’s been throwing me for a loop all day. Like, who DID hurt me?
We had an entire Google document organizing the fictional canon of this movie we all held genuinely dear. Even the spreadsheet had guidelines. Tiktok could never 👎🏾
We had an entire Google document organizing the fictional canon of this movie we all held genuinely dear. Even the spreadsheet had guidelines. Tiktok could never 👎🏾
